Title: The Husbands
Author: Holly Gramazio
Publisher: Doubleday
Publication date: April 2, 2024
Print length: 352 pages
Genre: Contemporary fiction
Source: Library

This exuberant debut, praised by Gabrielle Zevin as a “time-bending gem,” asks: how do we navigate life, love and choice in a world of never-ending options?

When Lauren returns home to her flat in London late one night, she is greeted at the door by her husband, Michael. There’s only one problem—she’s not married. She’s never seen this man before in her life. But according to her friends, her much-improved decor, and the photos on her phone, they’ve been together for years.

As Lauren tries to puzzle out how she could be married to someone she can’t remember meeting, Michael goes to the attic to change a lightbulb and abruptly disappears. In his place, a new man emerges, and a new, slightly altered life re-forms around her. Realizing that her attic is creating an infinite supply of husbands, Lauren confronts the question: If swapping lives is as easy as changing a lightbulb, how do you know you’ve taken the right path? When do you stop trying to do better and start actually living?

I can pretty much guarantee that you’ve never read a story like this before! The idea sounds nuts — a woman discovers that she has some sort of magical attic that delivers a stream of new husbands to her (not that she had a husband to begin with), and if she doesn’t like the one she gets, she just sends him back up to the attic and waits for the next one to come down.

Despite the out-there premise, The Husbands is a terrific read. Parts are laugh-out-loud funny, but mixed in with the absurdity of it all are nuggets of truth about love, relationships, and learning to live with and accept another person.

The moment his foot disappears, doubt washes through her. Perhaps she will receive only worse and worse husbands, maybe he was the best available, this was her chance and she’s fucked it up.

Lauren’s life turns upside-down when the first husband arrives, but once she realizes that the attic essentially offers a reset, she’s able to change her life at will. Different husbands bring different realities. Each time a new husband arrives, she discovers that her life changes too: Each husband is a doorway into a life some version of her would have chosen, and that means not only a different partner, but also other areas of divergence — different clothes, differently decorated flat, different jobs, even different body shapes. Some versions of Lauren’s life include a devotion to working out or hiking; in others, she’s clearly too worn down to bother. In many, she works in the same job, but there are times when she doesn’t work at all, has jobs she doesn’t know how to do, or finds herself promoted into a role that stresses her out.

Some husbands are more memorable than others. Some Lauren sends back immediately; some she lives with for a few days. There are some she can’t wait to get rid of, and one, sadly, that she wants to keep, but loses to his efficiency (he goes to stow something in the attic before she can stop him, and then he’s gone).

For the first third or so of the book, I wondered if this was what the whole book would be like — just a random string of husbands, and how Lauren interacts with each one. It goes much deeper than that, though, and the storyline gets more intricate and compelling as new developments occur.

Lauren’s never-ending cycle of husbands leads her to ponder choices and outcomes. She realizes that each husband is someone some version of herself chose, and therefore starts to assess each one more critically. Why this person? How did the two of them forge a connection? In what version of her life does this particular marriage make sense?

It’s such an interesting dilemma: What does it mean to enter a relationship that’s already well underway? Lauren is never a newlywed in any of these alternate versions of her life. Each husband is someone she must originally have fallen for, with all the thrills of new love… but by the time they descend the attic stairs, those days are in the past.

There is a time, she thinks, at the start of any relationship, when the process of falling in love softens a personality, like wax in a warm room. And so two people in love change, just a little, pushing their wax figures together, a protuberance here smoothed down but creating a dip there. It doesn’t last long, the time when love can gently change who you are, and in the relationships that she’s visited over the last six months, the moment has long passed.

With each husband, Lauren has to wonder if this is the one to keep, or could the next one possibly be better?

She has always hated being wrong, the idea of doing something that turns out to be an irredeemable mistake.

The consequences of Lauren’s shuffling of husbands become more dire as the book progresses. Eventually, Lauren must decide how much more she can take and whether getting herself out of the cycle is worth the risk of being stuck with someone imperfect.

The Husbands is such a weird and wild book, but I loved it! The writing is fantastic. The pacing zips along, but there are moments of introspection that really strike a nerve. I found the concept and Lauren’s ever-shifting reality absolutely fascinating, deeply engrossing, and very often, incredibly funny. The book provides lots of food for thought on what we risk when we enter into a relationship with another human being — how much can go wrong and how much can go right, how much is unknowable, and how many different outcomes can stem from seemingly simple decisions.

Ultimately, The Husbands is both terrific entertainment and a below-the-surface look at the intricacies of relationships and marriage.