Title: My Friends
Author: Fredrik Backman
Narrator: Marin Ireland
Publisher: Atria Books
Publication date: May 6, 2025
Print length: 436 pages
Audio length: 13 hours, 22 minutes
Genre: Contemporary fiction
Source: Purchased
Rating:
#1 New York Times bestselling author Fredrik Backman returns with an unforgettably funny, deeply moving tale of four teenagers whose friendship creates a bond so powerful that it changes a complete stranger’s life twenty-five years later.
Most people don’t even notice them—three tiny figures sitting at the end of a long pier in the corner of one of the most famous paintings in the world. Most people think it’s just a depiction of the sea. But Louisa, an aspiring artist herself, knows otherwise, and she is determined to find out the story of these three enigmatic figures.
Twenty-five years earlier, in a distant seaside town, a group of teenagers find refuge from their bruising home lives by spending long summer days on an abandoned pier, telling silly jokes, sharing secrets, and committing small acts of rebellion. These lost souls find in each other a reason to get up each morning, a reason to dream, a reason to love.
Out of that summer emerges a transcendent work of art, a painting that will unexpectedly be placed into eighteen-year-old Louisa’s care. She embarks on a surprise-filled cross-country journey to learn how the painting came to be and to decide what to do with it. The closer she gets to the painting’s birthplace, the more nervous she becomes about what she’ll find. Louisa is proof that happy endings don’t always take the form we expect in this stunning testament to the transformative, timeless power of friendship and art.
This will be a hard review to write… because My Friends is a beautiful, powerful book, and other than saying that I loved it, what else can I say?
This story about the transformative power of friendship and art is startling, funny, and emotional, filled with Fredrik Backman’s unique sense of connection and facility with words. The novel has a voice of its own that immerses the reader right from the start — and while it’s not always clear where the story is going, there’s immense pleasure in the journey.
My Friends has a contemporary setting as a frame, in which 17-year-old Louisa, one day away from the 18th birthday that will set her free from the foster system and also turn her out into the world with no resources or support, breaks into an art gallery to view a painting. It’s not just any painting: The One of the Sea by artist C. Jat is a glorious work depicting (you guessed it) the sea. It’s a hot commodity — the first painting by an artist whose works sell for millions, highly coveted by the rich auction crowd who think it’ll look just fabulous in their summer homes (maybe with a different color frame to go with their decor). But when Louisa sees the painting, she knows it’s really a painting about people — the three small figures, practically hidden, sitting together mid-laugh on a pier.
Through a series of action-filled scenes, Louisa ends up with Ted as a companion and quasi-guardian. Ted, it turns out, is a childhood friend of the artist and also one of the children on the pier in the painting. For reasons I won’t get into, Ted and Louisa end up embarking on a lengthy train journey together, during which their initial distrust and animosity toward one another turns into a nuanced, caring dynamic, as Ted reveals to Louisa what happened during the summer of the painting.
The heart of My Friends is the story from 25 years earlier that Ted tells to Louisa, about growing up in a hard, impoverished harbor town, where friendship is the key to surviving terrible home lives. Ted and his friends are poor, neglected, and bullied… but when they’re together, life could not be better. The fateful summer of the painting, as young teens, they find joy every day they’re together, despite the tragedies unfolding elsewhere in their lives.
As Ted and Louisa travel further together, he reveals the story bit by bit, in a storytelling approach that circles around certain events, hints at others, and then loops back for more. The more Ted shares, the more invested Louisa becomes, until her own emotions become inextricably tied to the events of Ted and his friends’ past.
Fredrik Backman’s writing here is superb. The way the two timelines weave together is magical. Time loops around the two narrative threads, bringing us back to summer days of pranks and swimming and freedom, while never letting us forget that those idyllic days had dark sides and life-long consequences. Backman is also a master at showing the impact of chance encounters — the people who happen to cross paths with someone at a critical moment, and end up having the power to change lives.
There’s such a brilliant mix of light and dark in this book. The writing is funny, and the author’s wordplay always delights.
“WAIT!” Ted bellows desperately at the lights, but that’s about as effective as throwing marshmallows at a whale and thinking it will change direction.
Certain comparisons and phrasing may seem absurd, but through repetition and a deep sense of fun, the writing makes this book sing in even small moments.
Joar couldn’t have looked more disappointed if Santa Claus had turned out to be a dentist.
I don’t want to say much about where the story goes, the events that are revealed, or how the various characters and situations connect to one another. This is a story best appreciated by letting it unfold around you. I will say that I felt completely drawn in by the storytelling, on edge awaiting an anticipated tragedy at one moment, and laughing out loud at outrageous antics another.
Audiobook narrator Marin Ireland, who has narrated several of the author’s books, once again is a marvel. She excels at providing distinct voices for the various characters, and does a terrific job with the dialogue, conveying everything from teen-age bluster to adult weariness and everything in between with utter conviction.
I’ll be thinking about My Friends for a long time to come, and can’t recommend it highly enough. This book should not be missed!
I’ve read several of the author’s books, but have a few earlier ones still to catch up on. After my positive experience with My Friends, I’m eager to dig in and catch up on what I’ve missed. Books I’ve read:
- The Answer is No
- Anxious People
- Beartown
- The Deal of a Lifetime
- A Man Called Ove
- Us Against You
On my to-read list:
- The Winners
- My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She’s Sorry
- Britt-Marie Was Here
Have you read any of these three? Is there one you’d particularly recommend?
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