Title: The Correspondent
Author: Virginia Evans
Publisher: Crown
Publication date: April 29, 2025
Length: 291 pages
Genre: Contemporary fiction
Source: Purchased
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Sybil Van Antwerp has throughout her life used letters to make sense of the world and her place in it. Most mornings, around half past ten, Sybil sits down to write letters—to her brother, to her best friend, to the president of the university who will not allow her to audit a class she desperately wants to take, to Joan Didion and Larry McMurtry to tell them what she thinks of their latest books, and to one person to whom she writes often yet never sends the letter.

Sybil expects her world to go on as it always has—a mother, grandmother, wife, divorcee, distinguished lawyer, she has lived a very full life. But when letters from someone in her past force her to examine one of the most painful periods of her life, she realizes that the letter she has been writing over the years needs to be read and that she cannot move forward until she finds it in her heart to offer forgiveness.

Filled with knowledge that only comes from a life fully lived, The Correspondent is a gem of a novel about the power of finding solace in literature and connection with people we might never meet in person. It is about the hubris of youth and the wisdom of old age, and the mistakes and acts of kindness that occur during a lifetime. Sybil Van Antwerp’s life of letters might be “a very small thing,” but she also might be one of the most memorable characters you will ever find.

The Correspondent is a lovely book about looking back at a life, understanding the past, making amends, and finding connections. It’s about a lot, actually — but isn’t life like that?

This epistolary novel takes place solely through the letters Sybil Van Antwerp writes and receives. Covering a span of ten years, we follow Sybil through her seventies, as she looks back on a life full of professional achievement, family joys and sorrows, good friends, and lots of literature. Through it all, she’s been a letter writer, sitting at her desk each day to write by hand on lovely paper. She writes to friends and family members, but also to a college dean, customer service representatives, obnoxious garden club members, and her favorite authors.

Sybil’s letters, one by one, provide readers with insight into the complicated inner life of a woman who, at first, seems like yet another somewhat cranky older woman character. But there’s so much more to discover: There’s a deep vein of grief that runs through all her letters, and as we learn, there are regrets from her past that she wishes to fix, if she can. Her family dynamics can be fraught, as we see in her often contentious relationship with her daughter, yet she displays a remarkable amount of kindness toward others in need, whether the son of a good friend with whom she corresponds throughout his difficult teen years or the high school student who reaches out for a school research project.

Themes of reconciliation and forgiveness add depth to the novel. Sybil affects others’ lives in big and small ways. A situation that seems threatening turns into an opportunity for making amends. Someone with whom Sybil interacts in a business capacity ends up having his life changed thanks to Sybil’s assistance.

And yet, we also see Sybil’s pain over a terrible loss, her ruminations on how and why her marriage ended, and her sorrow over her failures regarding her relationship with her daughter. Through her letters, Sybil communicates with others, but also investigates her own experiences. As we learn early on, Sybil has a condition that will lead to blindness, and while she doesn’t engage in self-pity, we see how deeply she fears the loss of vision, especially as a lifelong passionate reader who knows her time with books and writing may come to an end.

Lest this all sound quite dire, I must point out that The Correspondent has wonderful moments of joy and laughter as well. Sybil is courted by two very different men, and her descriptions of her experiences are sweet and funny. I loved her letters to authors. We might at first consider Sybil naive in her belief that a famous author might read her letters or remember her — but Sybil’s philosophy is to write to whomever she’s interested in communicating with, and who knows? She may actually get a response. There are several results of her letter-writing that absolutely delighted me — I won’t get into details, because these episodes are just too wonderful to spoil.

I’m so glad that I picked up The Correspondent. It’s a quick read that pulls on the heartstrings without becoming overly sentimental. There’s a deep sense of goodness here. Sybil isn’t perfect and hasn’t lived a perfect life. Through her letters, we understand her, and see what a difference one imperfect person can make.

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